My husband refuses to accept it. Pat was the executor of the will and was not forthcoming about its contents before the father’s death or at the time of his death. I think it’s a case of too little… too late. However, I want a loving family for my almost 2 year old daughter and her young cousins. My sister in law Pat has established a good relationship with me, but I can’t be disloyal to my husband. She called me last night and I’m sneaking around the house on the phone with her. I’m in the middle. Help!