
With tax season upon us I’m hearing several of my creative clientele, after seeing their bottom line for 2008, asking “Should I be looking for a job?”
One of my most gifted clients (I’ll refer to her as Sue–not her name) and I had this discussion early in the week. Sue had just met with her accountant*, interestingly a quilting hobbyist, who gave Sue dire warnings about her financial future. I mention the hobby thing because I believe it has an impact here.
People who aren’t pursuing their dreams, who haven’t taken the risk to ‘live’ their art, may not be the most reliable sources for creatives to listen to. I know I may get into trouble here, but I strongly advise my clients to manage their feedback, consider the source and make their own decisions about which bottom line to regard. When you’re happy in your life, with whatever work you choose to be doing, you’re not as likely to step on someone else’s dream.
Sue, by the way, has had her best year ever financially. She started our conversation by saying that the accountant “doesn’t know my work” which spoke volumes from the get-go. Sue is doing extraordinary, ground-breaking work in her field. She’s been awarded two grants, has curated shows in her area of expertise and is developing a collection of pieces for a museum exhibition. Sue is not in debt, has a newly renovated studio that has added value to her home and a business that is self-supporting. Her family is supportive, loving and proud. Considering the insanity that is prevalent in today’s financially mixed-up world, this represents immeasurable success in my book. In addition, her business has paid for her to travel to museums and exhibits, for all of her materials, for the expenses of networking and socializing with peers and the many volumes she’s read in her field and for inspiration.
In my book it comes down to values. When you’re happy in your life, passionately pursuing the work you were put on this earth to do, giving off positive energy because you’ve got it to give, then your tax return is not the measurement to hang your hat on. Create your own personal accounting system for April 15 and on it measure your health, your joy in living, your mental attitude, your relationships and your sense of connectedness in the world. Then decide whether you need to go look for a job.
By the way, at the end of our coaching call Sue said, “I can’t not be who I am.” Sometimes these incidents show up in our lives to remind us how much what we do means to us.
*Disclaimer: I love my accountant, Janis Siegel, CPA, who has never even hinted that I should look elsewhere for employment. This entry is not anti-accountants, only anti-dream killers in whatever guise they enter your lives.


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February 5, 2009 at 11:17 pm
Janice Weinstein
WOW!!! Your blog to my heart!!! My hope is that all the “Sue’s” out there not only read this, but really take it into every part of their being! I believe with all my heart that we need to stop and think before taking in all the fears from those who don’t believe in their dreams. As always…THANK YOU, JANE!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 at 2:52 pm
Diane Overton
What a great reminder to all of us, entrepreneurs or not. My financial reality is not what the news says, or what our accountant says (and we love our accountant). We have always followed our hearts in whatever work spoke to us, and have always had enough, and more often than not, more than enough….and it wasn’t always about the money, either. You go Sue!!
February 6, 2009 at 7:07 pm
Jessica Bram
Beautiful post. The perfect message for the right time.
February 6, 2009 at 8:19 pm
janepollak
@Diane and Jessica,
Thank you for underlining my message today.
February 20, 2009 at 11:57 am
debbie fay
jane:
thought you’d like to see my blog post from yesterday, “Help! My attitude’s fallen and it can’t get up.” Bravo! for this. i couldn’t agree more.
http://www.bespeakpresentations.blogspot.com
February 20, 2009 at 12:47 pm
Laura Newman
Jane! Thanks for this great post! I sometimes catch myself wishing the “who I am” was a more lucrative person. Staying true to ourselves and to our craft is the singular thing we can do to be certain we’re going in the right direction.
Thanks for helping me stay grounded.
February 20, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Jay Bright
Hard times test dreams.
Many of us have many dreams,
As one dream dims, another brightens?!
February 20, 2009 at 3:30 pm
janepollak
@Jay
Thank you for this mantra and the provocative thoughts.
February 20, 2009 at 3:30 pm
janepollak
@Laura
I appreciate your clarification: the singular thing we can do is stay true to ourselves and our craft. Amen.
February 20, 2009 at 3:32 pm
janepollak
@Debbie
Loved your entry from yesterday, especially the title and your Pollyanna turnaround. I stopped listening to the daily news about 20+ years ago when Wayne Dyer gave me permission. I used to have my wake-up alarm set to 880 news. No more! I stay focused on my day: the things I have the power to change.
February 20, 2009 at 7:04 pm
Kristina Foreman
Thank you Jane, I enjoyed reading your message and it came in a timely fashion.[ As I find most of your e-mails] When pursuing dreams meet the reality of family , life and paying bills it sometimes can be overwhelming in the every day. Many times I think
” What am I getting myself into” but, I do what I love , give my best and enjoy making women beautiful. I believe ones’ passion is a “GOD” given gift and should be pursued with all that is within you. What happens is a journey, that shouldn’t be missed. Thank you for the encouragement. I look forward to what is next. Kristina Foreman.
February 21, 2009 at 10:26 am
janepollak
@Kristina
I continue to say those same things to myself, too! Thanks for letting me know you’re out there on this great journey.