Although I don’t like to admit this out loud, now is actually a good time to make a confession given the state of the world economy. I have trouble spending money. I would rather have money than spend it.

I prefer to have a large bank account and watch the interest grow. Remember those good old days?  Except now, as the weather turns nice, many spending opportunities are calling my name and my bank account.

In times like these I turn to my team of financial advisers whom I’ve entrusted with my economic issues for many years now. They have never steered me wrong. I called them today for a brief phone meeting and came up with solutions that feel abundant. (One client of mine said she asks for help on any financial decisions that entail a comma in the numbers. That’s a good point of reference for me, too.)

After discussion of all my assets I got approval from my team to enroll in an intensive 8-month educational program which requires a hefty down payment and subsequent monthly installments. I’ll submit that application May 1.

I talked to them, also, about my invigorating and restorative experience last year at the Golden Door. While entirely too extravagant for this year, we agreed that a week away from it all in a beautiful environment with well-prepared food, spa amenities and healthy exercise options was a worthy gift. I mentioned an alternative retreat I’d discovered a 5-hour drive, rather than flight, from here at 1/4 the price. We agreed on my visiting the “Brass Door” during the summer of 2009!

What I especially appreciated during our conversation was their reminder to me that I set an example for all those I meet. How can I coach women towards their greatest achievements and self-care if I’m not continuously modeling that behavior? Hmmmm, could this be a business expense given that last statement?!

If you’ve got savings tucked away and a trusted adviser with whom to check your numbers, go ahead and reward yourself too.

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