
I’ve talked about Lucy Hedrick on many occasions, but her re-entry to Connecticut this season prompts another side of Lucy I’d like to share. Enviably, Lucy spends over six months a year as a snowbird in Sarasota, FL, taking her writing and book proposal coaching business with her. Once the Northeast warms to her liking, Lucy returns to her Greenwich home for the spring and summer months.
Lucy doesn’t sit around and wait for her friends and colleagues to notice that she’s back. She doesn’t even consider that anyone should have her on their radar. Rather, she gets busy reaching out and setting up her calendar to include the people and activities she most enjoys.
Last week I received a personal messages from Lucy with an inspired way to connect. She emailed me that we had lots to discuss and would I like to meet her for a walk. Note the benefit here: Lucy invited me for an activity she knows I engage in regularly. She also knows that getting anywhere in Fairfield County is a challenge. She made an irresistible proposal. She offered to drive to my house to meet me. My answer was an immediate, “YES!”
Early this week I was included in a group email sent to the women from my writers group which disbanded a few years ago. These creative writers are still foremost in my heart, but we haven’t gotten together as a group in well over a year. The email was from Lucy with the suggestion we get together for a reunion. Again, not only did Lucy come up with a lovely idea, but she also named a place and put out 5 dates that we could respond to.
How many times do you hear, “We should really get together!” followed by an enthusiastic, “Yeah! That’d be so nice.” And nothing happens. Lucy pre-empted that go-nowhere invitation with her thoughtfulness and commitment.
Lucy and I are walking this Friday morning at 7:30am, and our group will meet at one of our colleague’s homes at 3pm on the 29th. When you connect like Lucy, things happen. From my own experience, more things happen when you’re connecting with others than when you’re sitting in your office. I’m grateful to be on the receiving end of Lucy’s networking outreach.


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June 3, 2010 at 8:28 am
Susan O'Halloran
This blog really hit home with me as I feel like I’m often the one doing the organizing and have recently taken a hiatus because I’m just overwhelmed with busyness (good busyness but busyness all the same). The nice thing is, lately I noticed a couple of my pals have stepped up to the plate and organized things I could say yes or no to depending on my schedule. I like the sort of unspoken realization that we all need to take turns at the organizing to keep important friendships going. The time between the meetings doesn’t matter. It’s the quality of the connection with friends that is key.
Lucy sounds like a dynamo and I keep hearing her name. I’ll need to find her when writing a book gets closer to the top of my list! Thanks Jane.
June 4, 2010 at 5:20 pm
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June 4, 2010 at 5:26 pm
janepollak
@Sue
You’re definitely a kindred spirit! You and Lucy will have sparks flying when you work together. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.