I received an email this morning from a colleague I admire asking advice about speaking. It triggered my radar noting that this request for information about speaking comes my way weekly.
So, I’m going to share with you what I shared with her. Most people who approach me to find out the best way to get into speaking (whether professionally or otherwise) have a great story to tell. That’s a perfect beginning.
The two elements required to get in front of an audience are:
1. Get your story into shape for sharing it.
2. Find an audience.
We’ll talk about getting paid another time.
The best way I know to get your story audience-ready is to join Toastmasters and sign up for the Icebreaker speech: the first manual presentation where you introduce yourself to this friendly group of strangers. I’ve always maintained that if you can captivate and amuse this disparate gathering of men and women of all ages and backgrounds, you’ve got a good chance for success.
This is a two-for-one situation, because practicing in front of the Toastmasters audience gives you a receptive crowd and a deadline to begin. When you’re planning to move into any new arena, you need a forcing mechanism. The ongoing meetings (usually every two weeks) of your local Toastmasters club will give you the opportunity not only to get started, but to commit to building your repertoire of topics and talks.
That’s my advice. Go to Toastmasters, work through their manual, and call me in the morning after you’ve completed this assignment.



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July 13, 2010 at 10:21 am
Kathryn Doherty
I have gotten very involved with Tuesday night Toastmasters and love it.
I forwarded this post to all of the current officers plus a few others. Just heard back from Lynn, who I discovered also knows you. I am currently the President of the Greater Stamford Toastmasters Club, and I know that is where you got started!
Two things:
1) Do you mind if I post a link to this on the Toastmasters Facebook page?
2) We will be dramatically updating our web site when our tech person returns in the fall. One idea I have is to put up videos of people talking about Toastmasters. Would you like to be one of the speakers on our site?
Thanks,
Kathryn
July 13, 2010 at 11:03 am
janepollak
@Kathryn
This is awesome! Please! Post away! I’d love to be a speaker on your site. Thank you for the opportunity and the promotion.
July 14, 2010 at 11:12 am
pve
Jane,
Linda told me I won your book! I am so thrilled. I know this will really help me with my at home artwork business while raising my family. Perhaps if I balance your book on my head, good things will come.
Patricia
pve design
July 14, 2010 at 5:07 pm
janepollak
@Patricia
I’m thrilled to be sending you a copy! You sound like me 10-20 years ago. Yes, balancing is the first step to good things coming
July 23, 2010 at 11:09 am
Wendy Wrzos
Thanks Jane (as you can see I am late catching up on my blog reading). Great advice.
Public speaking is my worst nightmare. Because of this, I have to force deadlines on myself. I book appointments to speak, and I have now booked to teach a course at a local community school.
I am scared to death, but I know this is the only way I will conquer it. By practicing, preparing and just going for it.