It works every time. What’s the first piece of mail you open, should you receive any, in your snail mail box? If there’s something there that is thick and bulky with a first class stamp and a valued name on the return address, my money says that’s what gets ripped open before you reach your front door.
I received such a mailing last week from trusted client and colleague Brooke Feder. It included a beautifully written note thanking me for my part in her Joy Project launch and a cool-looking white plastic container (in photo).
I slid open the top of the device to reveal a stack of colorful cards, each with a phrase such as: seeing an old friend, a local farm stand, as well as the ones you see here. Each of these cards stated a shared joy which is Brooke’s mission: to spread and share joy.
To learn more about what Brooke is up to and to participate, visit her website: www.3minutestojoy.com. Her mailing to me, and I presume several others, is her living her purpose. It certainly brightened my day.
In addition to spreading joy and closing the loop on her goals from when Brooke participated in my Mastermind sessions, this mailing set me in motion. The neat gadget that Brooke sent is from Moo. I had ordered cards from them when I first began my blog. I’ll be attending the BlogHer Conference in NYC next month and realized I needed to re-order for that event. Brooke’s well-timed mailing was just the reminder I needed.
There’s another trick I want to share in this post. It’s called letting go of perfectionism. I know that the image I took of the cards is ‘blown out’ in photography lingo. The flash was too bright on the cards. I could have spent time and effort making it better, but have learned to focus (no pun intended) on what was more important here: Brooke’s genius mailing, and to let go of getting the image just so. Done is better than perfect.



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July 19, 2010 at 12:27 pm
Elizabeth Cottrell
Great reminder (the bulky envelope trick), Jane, and I’m so happy to know about Brooke and her Joy project. I know she and I will find lots in common with our new ventures, and I plan to touch bases with her so we can be on each other’s radar screens.
Ironically, I just finished reading the “let go of perfection” chapter in your new book. Could be the Universe is trying to tell me something!
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July 19, 2010 at 2:36 pm
janepollak
@Elizabeth
Sounds like we’re really on the same page!
Enjoy meeting Brooke. She’s an amazing person, inspirer and resource.
July 20, 2010 at 11:44 am
Wendy Wrzos
I loved that this was also a reminder about “personal touches”. The fact that Brooke took the time and energy to send something tactile speaks volumes about her as a person.
No matter how technical we become, people, women especially, appreciate something that has taken time and thought.
The perfection part really resonated. I was drawing a sketch for a client the other day (for about 3 hours
As I was redoing a tiny detail, my daughter walked in, unexpectedly, and said “Mom, that is so amazing!!”. By trying to be perfect, which was never possible in the first place, I had totally lost sight of what I was doing.
I put it down, popped it in the envelope, and mailed it off.
July 21, 2010 at 12:55 pm
janepollak
@Wendy
Great daughter you’ve got there! Glad you heard her message.