
When I teach the marketing module in my Soul Proprietor’s Formula for Building Your Business, I begin with a conversation I once had with my good friend and illustrator, Maggie Swanson. We walked regularly when we lived in the same neighborhood and shared frequently what was going on in our art/business lives. It dawned on me after knowing Maggie for awhile that she NEVER told me her professional accomplishments like getting called to do the cover art for Sesame Street Magazine or that she’d been commissioned to illustrate a series of Golden Books.
I, on the other hand, bragged about every opportunity that crossed my threshold. After I’d seen yet another amazing project she’d be working on in her studio, I finally said something. “Maggie, how come you never even mention all the cool things you’ve got coming in the door?”
She told me that when she was growing up, if she looked in the mirror admiringly as she passed one by, her mother would say, “Maggie, S-P-S.” I had no idea what that stood for. She explained, “Self-Praise Stinks.” Ouch!
Imagine my delight when Maggie and I were walking at Compo Beach last week and she shared a recent thrill. Here’s how she told it:
When my new book “Lucky Cat Paper Dolls” was published, I was so happy that I forgot one of my mother’s precepts, “SPS.” This has also encompassed self-promotion for me.
I sent a copy of the book to Jackson Galaxy, a cat behaviorist with a very entertaining show, “My Cat From Hell” on the Animal Planet network. Within a few days I got a lovely handwritten thank you note from him. Then I emailed the Modern Cat blog and sent a link to the book on amazon.com. I got an email back from the owner Kate Benjamin [which said] “Perfect timing! I was just with Jackson Galaxy yesterday and I saw your book and wrote down your name so I could remember it! Thanks for the link!
Today I was surprised to be featured on the blog!
This is how it works. Maggie felt a connection to someone aligned with her mission, reached out in an appropriate manner, and continued to act on intuition and inspiration. The results tell the tale of authentic networking–heartfelt and successful.



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April 26, 2012 at 9:58 am
Mindy
Kudos Maggie! You are indeed a gifted artist and as charming and understated as the cats you love and portray! Big smile! Thanks Jane.
April 26, 2012 at 12:33 pm
janepollak
@Mindy
You said it!
May 9, 2012 at 10:04 am
Jennifer
Wonderful post and fantastic illustrations Maggie!
May 9, 2012 at 2:34 pm
Cynthia Overgard
Well, mine isn’t a story of self-praise (not that I’m lacking for those like your humble friend Maggie), but one of authentic networking. When my son, Alex, was born – naturally, easily, beautifully in water – I felt compelled to reach out to the author of the book I credited for opening my eyes to an informed, empowering birth. Her name is Henci Goer. I looked her up online and wrote her a long, grateful email, telling her I felt she deserved to hear of just one more life she completely changed for the better. (Little did I know an entire new career would also spin off from the experience.) Henci replied almost immediately with a lovely “you’re most welcome” sort of response. Here’s the incredible part. Four years later, I planned a home/waterbirth for our daughter. I hired a midwife from Milford to attend the birth. Just by pure coincidence, my midwife was close friends/associates with Henci (who lives on the West coast) and was in the process of co-authoring Henci’s next book with her. To put one final serendipitous touch on the story, literally the day after my daughter was born, Henci flew into town to meet with my midwife, and they both came to visit us in our home to see our new baby. The very author – an icon! – who led me to consider a natural birth was standing in our bedroom the day after our second natural birth. For me, this was surreal.
Come to think of it, Jane, I reached out to another excellent author two years after that, and she has since become a most treasured friend as a result. (Any idea who? Hmmm…) Signed, Soul Proprietor Cynthia Overgard xo
May 11, 2012 at 6:06 am
janepollak
@Cynthia
This comment embodies the power of reaching out and expressing what’s inside of you. You have a way of expressing things that compels others to take action. Quite a gift. I was so honored by YOUR email a couple of years ago that, of course, I wanted to meet you too. Thanks for sharing this.